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When a relationship ends because of infidelity, emotions run hot: hurt, anger, betrayal, resentment, embarrassment, fear of losing control. That emotional cocktail can create the conditions for high-conflict co-parenting. Why? Because when someone feels deeply wounded, some respond by trying to: punish the other parent, control the narrative, “win” the breakup, protect their ego by painting a villain, or pull the children closer in order to push the other parent further awa

Money isn't the only thing on the table during a divorce or break up. Be sure to make your children your first priority. Breaking up...

For Fathers who are non-custodial parents the weekends never seem like enough time and it's not but this article will teach you to make the most of the time you have.

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Parental alienation isn’t always loud—it’s often subtle. I took my daughters to Build-A-Bear, made memories, and sent pictures. Weeks later, their mother threw the bears away and returned the photos. “They don’t play with them,” she said. That’s how subtle alienation works—erasing gifts, returning memories, dismissing presence. But fathers must stay consistent. Your love and legacy matter, even when someone tries to erase them. Keep showing up.

Sometimes the root of your co-parent’s hostility isn’t anger—it’s jealousy. Not because you’ve moved on romantically, but because your children genuinely love and admire you, and deep down, your co-parent wants that kind of bond too. In high-conflict situations, this hidden jealousy can fuel sabotage, gatekeeping, and passive-aggressive behavior.

Parental alienation is one of the most heartbreaking challenges a father can face in a high-conflict custody situation. You show up, follow the court order, and stay involved—yet your child begins to withdraw, act distant, or even refuse to see you. It’s not just rejection. It’s manufactured resistance—often rooted in manipulation by the other parent. This experience is not only painful, it's confusing, isolating, and deeply unfair.

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..counter-parenting is often fueled by personal resentment, differences in values, or a desire to exert control over the parenting dynamic.

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It's there lingering like a splinter that you just can't get. You can tell there is something off with your co-parent, but they say,...

"It's easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." Fredrick Douglass. As fathers, we play an important role in shaping our...

In today's digital age, video games have evolved beyond just entertainment; they have become a "3rd space" for many children. But what...

High-conflict co-parenting can be a challenging landscape to navigate, especially when you want to remain actively involved in your children's lives. Creating a structured parenting plan is crucial to reduce conflict and ensure your children's well-being. Here are some essential elements to include in your parenting plan: 1. Detailed Parenting Schedule Clearly outline the custody and visitation schedule, including specific pick-up and drop-off times and locations. By eliminat